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July 01, 2010, 09:10 AM posted by Maria Choban Once upon a time while having amorous fun, my lover moaned "oh yeah, that's how to keep your man happy and at home". I saw red. I slithered up to his face and hissed "if anyone strays in this coupling, it'll be me". I react passive-aggressively to glass-ceilings, male-narcissism (my father) and young stockbrokers. I am calmly confronting as a leader and am pretty good at ferreting and supporting the good ideas regardless of voice pitch. All in all, I'm a Dom at the very least and an equal whenever I get the rare opportunity. However...... Argentine Tango. Last night a friend and I finally managed to attend an alternative music Milonga. Friend is an outstanding Viennese Waltzer (spinning waltz). He likes dances that travel and as he says "The Argentine is a traveling dance that doesn't". The Argentine is my favorite dance. Its charm is its subtlety - making it the antithesis of American Ballroom Tango (which I abhor). It's entirely spontaneous and the female follow gets a chance to be truly female - to backlead, to be entirely submissive (though not passive) to the music, the dance, and her partner. I have no instinct in general for leading as a dancer. I remember a Contra-Dance where one of my favorite female dancers was not dancing and I grabbed her as a partner, establishing me as the leader. I sucked. Not all that long ago the same thing happened but she wisely said she'd be the guy. OMG. She's one of the best leads I've ever had and we were so XXX steamy we got an ovation at the end of the dance. It's always nice to know I can find places to balance my visionary stubbornness and drive, totally giving myself up to a visionary and capable lead, the dance and the music. |
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